A dinner at Blue Hill at Stone Barns is, to me, a phenomenal gift. It’s also quite expensive (but trust me, worth every penny). So, you have the dinner, you’re blissfully bombed and overfed,  stumble into their store and buy decanters by Deborah Ehrlich.  They cost as much as dinner, but last longer (Water Carafe,  $285; Wine Decanter, $315, Magnum Decanter, $345):